Why Romance Turns Toxic

Most everyone wants to fall in love, especially codependents. To us, love is perhaps the highest ideal, and relationships give our lives meaning and purpose. They enliven and motivate us. A partner provides a companion when we have difficulty initiating action on our own. Being loved also validates our sense of self-esteem, overcomes shame-based  doubts about our lovability, and soothes our fears of loneliness. But … Continue reading Why Romance Turns Toxic

My Husband Says He Doesn’t Care If I Stay Or Leave

I sometimes hear from wives who have been telling their husband that they are considering leaving the home or the marriage. Some are sincere about this. They are unhappy and feel that taking a break by leaving may be the best thing at the time. Others are not exactly serious about leaving. They are threatening to leave in the hopes that their husband TripTogether.com will … Continue reading My Husband Says He Doesn’t Care If I Stay Or Leave

What No One Tells You About (Muslim) Marriage Events

Singles, singles and more Muslim singles… There are plenty of them, in all shapes, sizes, races and with various qualifications. Yet, there doesn’t seem to be one singleton sparking enough interest to say DilMil.co ‘let’s take this further and go for a coffee?’ So what’s going wrong at these marriage events? How do single Muslims get married these days? The hush voices and the deafening … Continue reading What No One Tells You About (Muslim) Marriage Events

Marriage, an Inexpressible Relation

It has been, and would be said that “Marriages are decided and performed in heaven”. Does this statement hold true in present days’ context? Nobody can ever answer precisely to this question. SharekAlomre.com However, pondering on our own experiences, we have unique answers and views based on individual personalities. Coming to the point; we as individuals would have undergone certain issues in relations. Those relations … Continue reading Marriage, an Inexpressible Relation

Love When Exhaustion Sets Up Camp

“LET’S just do this,” my wife said firmly, yet in a whisper quiet voice, looking straight at me. It was a moment in time when every fibre of me simply walked in unison with this most previous instruction. FlirtWith.com Five seconds beforehand, I definitely wanted to quit! I did not want to do it, but again, seven years hence, she whispered me. It’s the power … Continue reading Love When Exhaustion Sets Up Camp

What Sacrifices Are You Willing To Make To Stay Married?

Marriage is never perfect nor is it always imperfect. Perception plays a big part in marriage happiness or marriage unhappiness. So what makes some marriages last for 50 years and some less than 6 months? Is it the wrong 2 people getting married for the wrong reason? YourChristianDate.com Maybe it’s less about the people and more about perceptions and expectations. Maybe, just maybe, it has … Continue reading What Sacrifices Are You Willing To Make To Stay Married?

Can Our Marriage Work If I Am The Only One Trying?

I sometimes hear from people who have the strong sense that their marriage is potentially in trouble. They can not help but notice that something has changed. Their spouse may be distant or not affectionate. It might seem as if there is nothing to really talk about anymore. YourLatinMates.com There can be awkward silences or distant encounters. Many people mourn these losses because this is … Continue reading Can Our Marriage Work If I Am The Only One Trying?

The Lady With The Adulterous Husband

Hebrews 13:4 (AMPC) “Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. YourLoveMeet.com And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous.” Dear people of God, today’s society seems to have an unwritten rule especially in African societies, which is … Continue reading The Lady With The Adulterous Husband

My Spouse Doesn’t Know If He Wants To Come Back To Me

If you are separated and living apart (but are still invested in your marriage,) it is very understandable when you feel extremely impatient. When I was separated, there were times when every day without my husband felt like torture. I actually used to fixate and ruminate on this feeling. So of course, when things start to look up between yourself and your husband, it is … Continue reading My Spouse Doesn’t Know If He Wants To Come Back To Me